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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

NOW WHAT

Today you find out that your child has been diagnosed "legally blind" and this will change the way he or she sees the world. Maybe you are scared, angry, concerned about their future or not sure how you will get through the rest of the day. These feelings are normal and you are not alone. Just remember how you react has an impact on your child. Being "legally blind" does not mean they cannot see. Your next step is to be your child's advocate in every way you can. Do NOT feel sorry for them. Accept the challenge and move forward and find ways to support and embrace this new journey that you are all on. Get them involved in activities, whether its ice skating- horseback riding or swimming. Allow them to continue what they enjoy, or try something new. Don't for one second think that your child's future will be less successful than a someone who is sighted. Remember that vision is an inside job and we don't need sight for that.
One of the first steps is to have the doctor submit a form to the state, eye report form, which will start the process of receiving support for your child. Every child has the ability to live a full and prosperous life if you let them. Don't enable them, allow them to learn ways to participate with their peers and do things for themselves. As a parent it is your job to encourage, support and help when it's needed. Be their cheerleader and advocate. Ask what is available for services and how you can help the process in school. There are many resources that will involve the families as well.
This website can be a starting point for you and your family to begin the process of gathering information. You will quickly realize that you are not alone. Make sure that you ask as many questions as you can possibly think of in order to receive all the help you can. Your child is entitled to an education like all kids and may need some adaptive technology to help aid in the process. Ask for training and go to every school meeting and support your child's right to learn.

Another great website can be found here Don't let being legally blind halt your dreams and aspirations for your child's future instead embrace it and visualize greatness! Anything and everything is possible.

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