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With
St. Patrick's Day right around the corner, people are very focused on
the concept of "luck." When most people think about a stroke of good
luck coming their way, they often hope it comes in the form of money.
Well, I have the perfect investment tip for you - one that will yield a
current pay-off and will guarantee future returns.
Invest in YOURSELF. It will be the most profitable investment you ever make.
Your personal
and professional satisfaction will always be directly linked to your
quality of life. Investing in your own growth will guarantee your
success, productivity and ultimately, your happiness. Take a moment
today to think about the areas you can invest in. Enroll in a class,
start a new hobby, read up on an interesting topic, make that
appointment you've been putting off, schedule that trip you've been
thinking about, take a risk, make a decision.
At Vision Dynamics, we often talk to
customers who are hesitant to spend money on equipment for themselves.
It's amazing how many people I meet who don't believe they are their own
best investment. Like all things in life, we need to weigh the cost and
benefits. When it comes to low vision, being able to read, write, look
at pictures etc., are benefits that have no price tag.
The effort you put into consistently investing in yourself plays a large
role in determining the quality of your life now and in the future. At
the end of the day, to be able to say we are happy means we are pretty
lucky after all.
It
was Ralph Waldo Emerson who said, "We become what we think about all day
long." And I can tell you from personal experience, that no truer words
have been spoken. As many of you know,
I have been legally blind since childhood. As founder of Vision
Dynamics and a public speaker, I have had the opportunity to meet and
talk with so many people with low vision, spanning decades in age. I've
noticed a commonality amongst the ones who are reluctant to take
proactive steps toward adjusting to their condition - and that is
mindset. They have invested so much
time, thought and effort into believing they are powerless, that it
became a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Have you ever heard of ANTs? Not the annoying little bugs. This ANTs is
an acronym that stands for Automatic Negative Thoughts. Just like the
insects, these ANTs have the ability to show up unannounced and can
become a real nuisance if they aren't addressed and begin to invade your
personal space. As humans, we have the natural ability to let these
thoughts invade us all day long. If we are not aware of our thinking, we
may even find that the ANTs are multiplying around us. How many times a
day do you find yourself thinking things like "I never do this right,"
"I always make mistakes," "I am so stupid," "Why am I bothering?", "I
can’t," etc etc.
The more we continually say these things to ourselves throughout the day
the more we believe them. The more we believe them the more stuck and
unhappy we become. After awhile, the ANTs have taken up residency and
become so ingrained that we just stop exterminating. It took me hitting
rock bottom before I took an honest look at my life - why I was unhappy,
why I felt stuck, why I felt I was not moving forward. Stopping to
evaluate and take an honest look at my mind's process gave me the tools
to understand that it was my own negative thinking that was keeping me
trapped in a downward spiral. Day by day, I questioned each thought as
it invaded my mind - "Is it true or just a belief I concocted?" "Does
this thought support me and is it helping me move towards my goals?" If
the answers were no, then I simply exterminated the thought. This was a
big chunk for me to swallow at first, it meant I had to stop blaming,
complaining, rationalizing, justifying my behaviors and take
responsibility for my own life and my thinking. But I fumigated slowly
and consciously until the ANTs were reduced to a minimum.
Our brains believe what we tell it. The only thing we have complete 100%
control over is what we think. So start today and retrain your brain to
conjure Automatic Positive Thoughts. Start now. Because a day at time,
anything is possible.